Not Melfi's Office: The Sopranos' First Great Existential Moment, Per The Ringer
The Ringer locates the first great moment of existentialism on The Sopranos not in Dr. Melfi's office or by the pool while Tony looks for the ducks, but in Christopher Moltisanti's dimly lit apartment.
Paulie has a couple of girls waiting for them in the car, but Chrissy doesn't want to go anywhere. Chrissy wants to talk about his purpose in life, his arc, to borrow a term from his movie-writing books.
Still trying to find his place in the world, he raises his hand to mark where a character starts and where that character ends up, and lands on his question: “Where's my arc, Paulie?”
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The joke cuts because Chrissy is asking for the one thing his world is built to deny a guy at his level: a story that is actually about him.
The sharper joke is in the doorway, not in the philosophy: Paulie has women waiting in the car while Chrissy would rather stay in and talk about his arc.